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I never thought I would travel
to the other side of the world, let alone bring home a child from
there. We brought our first daughter, Emma, home in January 1998 from
China. She brought so much joy into our lives. We thought our lives
were complete, but our hearts told us different. We brought our second
daughter, Ellie, home from China in May 2001. Everything was great! We
had a playmate for Emma and they got along great.
In November 2001, CHI tugged at our heartstrings
once again. They featured a sibling group of 4 from Colombia. I fell
in love with them. I planted a seed in my husband’s mind about them. I
didn’t speak much about it after that. I let God work on his heart. In
March 2002, he asked for the information on Colombia. We began
collecting our paperwork and by August, we were preparing for our
trip. We arrived in Bogota on a Tuesday at about 9:00 p.m. and left
Wednesday morning at 7:00 am to pick them up. The trip to their city
was about 3 hours by car.
The trip there was nerve wracking enough, then our van
had a problem with the brakes. We were hurried off to another taxi once
the problem was identified. We had a true Indy 500 driver for that taxi.
We were enjoying the scenery at a very fast pace. We found out later, our
attorney was quite anxious through the whole ordeal for fear we may not
make our appointment. To us, he seemed quite cool and collected for the
whole thing.
Arriving safely at our destination, we anxiously made
our way into the building of the ICBF. As with all moments like this, we
couldn’t bear the anticipation of meeting the children we were about to
spend the rest of our lives with. Emma and Ellie were pacing back and
forth with the gifts we brought for the children. When they finally came
to the door, we all just looked at each other. What on earth do you say to
these children in the limited Spanish you know? Any practiced lines or
questions were totally gone from our minds. Then the hugs started! We
wanted to know everything and to tell them everything. They soon began
nervously eating the candy treats we brought and looking at us with that
"Now what?" look.
We had almost finished with the officials there when
Adriana began crying. Yesika began to comfort her. After awhile, her
comfort was unsuccessful and she began crying as well. We left the
building and found our original van outside. They cried for 1-½ hours and
finally fell asleep. They awoke about 10 minutes before we reached
L’Auberge, our Bed and Breakfast in Bogota. They were calm at that point,
but after the bumpy roads and all the nerves, we paid the price for the
candy we shared as it came back up and ended up all over the floor of the
van. So the bonding began! The eight of us stayed in one room together. It
contained three twin beds, one with a trundle, and a queen size bed. The
ladies there were exceptional. They pretty much waited on us hand and
foot. They took care of our rooms, did our laundry and cooked us some very
good meals. They even did babysitting for other families that picked up
small children.
Lucia and David arranged our appointments for us and
translated for us. As promised, they kept things rolling. They made it all
seem so easy. They were a Blessing to us while we were there. Oscar was
our attorney. He handled everything very quickly and even saved us a third
trip to Chiquinquira where we met the children. Between the three of them,
everything went very smoothly.
The weather was perfect in the 70’s for the time we
spent there. The mountains were beautiful. As a result of the nice
weather, we naturally spent most of our waking hours outside at various
parks within walking distance. They had fresh flower markets there that
were beautiful. The pastry shops were very good as well. We celebrated
Daniel’s birthday and my husband Rob’s birthday and bought some delicious
cakes from nearby shops. All the people we came into contact with were all
very friendly. The trip home was so exciting. The children had never been
on an airplane before and they were bubbling all over with excitement. If
only, I could have video taped their expressions when we took off. It’s
those things that remind us of all the excitement we too used to enjoy and
now take for granted.
Once we were home for a few days, we registered the two
oldest, Andres and Yesika for school. They were nervous and excited. We
toured the school and discovered that a water fountain is for drinking
from and not for washing hands. They met their teachers and soon to be
classmates. Yesika’s teacher is bilingual in English and Spanish and her
class is directly across the hall from Andres’ in case he would need
assistance. They both currently love school and are the favorites in their
class according to their teachers.
We have all settled in now and all is going very well.
Our community is so supportive of us. We are constantly bombarded with all
kinds of help if needed. Emma and Ellie act as if they were here all
along. They are certainly a normal family. They pick on each other, laugh
together, and argue as if they were born in the family. People do look at
our family sometimes as if we are crazy. The answer to that is "We are
crazy in love!" God has Blessed us in so many ways. We have met so many
wonderful people throughout each of our experiences. We count at least six
Blessings each day.
Theresa Miller
You can email the Millers at
RTEEM@juno.com
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